Kaduna State House of Assembly passes bill to ensure Pastors and Imams obtain license before preaching in the state

The Kaduna State House of Assembly today Friday June 7th, passed into law the Religious preaching Regulation law 1984. 

Speaker of the House, Aminu Abdullahi Shagali while reading the bill during plenary,  said a state inter-faith Regulatory council has been established with a chairman to be appointed by the Governor on the recommendation of the Secretary to the state Government. He also said  two members representing the Christians and Muslim faith  are to be  appointed by the Governor among others respectively.

 According to Abdullahi, the bill when signed into law, will ensure that in each of the 23 local Government areas of the state, a committee to be known as the Local Government Inter-faith Committee must be established. The bill states that any person who plays religious cassette or uses a loud speaker for religious purposes between the hours of 11pm to 4am in a public place, and uses a loudspeaker for religious purposes other than inside a church or mosque commits an offence and shall on conviction be liable to imprisonment for a term of not less than two years or pay a fine of less than N200,000 or both.

 The bill adds that any person who publicly insults or seeks to incite, contempt any religion, by making false statement in such a manner as to be likely to lead to violence and breach of public peace, shall be punished with imprisonment for a term of not less than five years,  a fine of not less than N100,000 or both .

The law now awaits the state governor, Nasir El-Rufai, for his assent

Madrid have agreed on terms with Hazard to double his current wages from £200,000 to £400,000 per week.

Real Madrid has reportedly agreed to double Eden Hazard's Chelsea salary' to a staggering £400,000 per week when he finalises his £130million move.

According to the Evening Standard, Madrid have agreed on terms with Hazard to double his current wages from £200,000 to £400,000 per week.

His imminent big-money transfer to the Bernabeu is expected to be announced within the next 24 hours after an agreement was reached this week between the two clubs, with Madrid agreeing to pay an initial £88m, which will still rise to £130m dependent on various bonuses and incentives for the former Lille player.

The deal will make Hazard is the most expensive signing in their history, ahead of both Cristiano Ronaldoand Gareth Bale. It will also be the second-largest Premier League transfer ever, after Philippe Coutinho's £145m move from Liverpool to Real's arch-rivals Barcelona in January 2018

PDP governors to implement and pay the 30,000 naira minimum wage

We are very eager as PDP governors to implement and pay the 30,000 naira minimum wage that the federal government announced. “We want to do so to alleviate the plight of the long suffering Nigerian workers who have been under-paid for long and the workers who are currently groaning in economic hardship as a result of what has gone wrong with the economy since the All Progressives Congress (APC) government took over. “So, we call on the federal government to expedite the process of presenting a bill to that effect.

FIFA has demanded details of yesterday’s arrest of the President of the Confederation of African Football (CAF), Ahmad Ahmad, fraud allegations leveled against him.

Ahmad was arrested by French police at the Berri Hotel in Paris over alleged fraud.

According to Jeune Afrique, the CAF president was detained at 8:30a.m local time and was expected to face the anti-corruption agency’s Central Office for Combating Corruption and Financial and Tax Crimes.

Ahmad was accused of misusing about $830,000 after allegedly ordering equipment via a French intermediary company named Tactical Steel. He had previously denied the accusations and claimed all the decisions were made “collegially”, insisting that the process was “transparent”.

In April, Reuters revealed that CAF Secretary General, Amr Fahmy, had accused Ahmad of bribery and misappropriate 

My first Job exprience with DAG

Odinaka Kingsley Okoli

As an intern with Development Action Group (DAG), I was working under supervision of Josette Cole the Chief Executive officer at DAG. I began my internship program on 14th, May 2012 with DAG. The internship contract was for three (3) months and came to an end on 14th August, 2012. When I first arrived, it was unclear to me exactly what my duties were going to be. However, with the help of Nokukhanya, and immediate supervisor Helen Macgregor and other colleagues within DAG, I was able to understand what my work involved and to what extend I was responsible for doing it. The following were some of the guide that made my work easier during the public event preparation May 2012. Here are my expectations.

 My duties and responsibilities according contract descriptions

• Track DAG media engagements
• Coordinate the printing of DAG letterhead complimentary slip. Business card and annual greeting card as required
• Assist with the logistical arrangement for public event and engagements
• Assist with the preparation of promotional material. This includes assisting with the preparation of media release, dissemination of posters and flyers, invitation to organisation.
• Providing support and assistance to the production of document related to the public event
• Summarising document of interest to organisation and clients
• Preparing educational material for workshop
• Assist in workshops
• Any other activities requested by the chief Executive officer after consultation with the line manager.

 My work Impact: I did work focused more on preparation of ninth of June public event at Good hope centre which I started with Public event programme Calendar, Consolidating personal database on public event, assisting in decoration of Good hope centre for the public event and, Consolidating email list for DAG stakeholders and target audiences. After the public event I contributed in linking the Communities’ commentary on Public Events and communities charter for public events. Another impact is Marketing Report (PHP) project in Khayelitsha which I have already presented and I believe it did have a lot of positive impact towards the achievement of the overall objective of DAG target audience.

My Observations: During the three months in DAG, I realized that DAG is housing and urban development in various communities and them not much into publicity frequent. I did observe that teamwork played quite a huge role in attaining most of the DAG mandates. It was equally important as the ability to work independent. But the goal must be to find a way to combine it in the right way.

 In conclusion: I have to show both of my supervisors (Josette Cole who was my senior supervisor and Helen Macgregor who was my immediate supervisor) at DAG for the good job. I really appreciate the way I have been guided through this internship programme with DAG, beginning from the opportunity to take the time I needed to refresh and expand my knowledge in several issues concerning community relations and housing development. I thank Daggies for everything I wish them all the best.

Julius Malema was found guilty of racial hatred



Julius Malema

ANC Youth League leader Julius Malema was found guilty of provoking divisions within the ruling party and of bringing the organisation into disrepute on Thursday, and was suspended for five years. He will vacate his position. This was after Malema said earlier this year the ANCYL would send a team to Botswana to consolidate local opposition parties and help bring about regime change there. Malema later apologised for the remarks, but they were widely believed to have caused serious diplomatic embarrassment for the ANC.

Malema was found not guilty on a third charge of inciting racial hatred and inflaming divisions in the country.

Doctor ‘Conrad Murray’ Found Guilty of death of Michael Jackson

Dr Conrad Murray

After 6 weeks of trial, a guilty verdict was returned by the jury yesterday in the Michael Jackson and Conrad Murray’s manslaughter case; meaning Jackson’s doctor (Conrad Murray) was found guilty of involuntary manslaughter in the pop star’s death for supplying an insomnia-plagued Jackson with a powerful operating-room anesthetic to help him sleep as he rehearsed for his big comeback. Conrad faces 4 years in jail and was remanded in custody until sentencing on 29th November, 2011. Meanwhile Defense attorney Ed Chernoff said later in the day the verdict was a disappointment and would be appealed.

Lagos conspiracy...

LAGOS-A 70-year- old man and three others have been arraigned before a Surulere Magistrate’s Court in Lagos for alleged cutting off the hand and leg of one Tajudeen Ogunbadejo with a machete. Oladun Mannaseh, 70; Dick Ike, 61; Edike Emeka, 49 and Rafiu Olorunmbe, 35, were charged on a two-count charge of conspiracy and causing grievous body harm.

Miss World 2011...

A 21-year-old from Venezuela ‘Ivian Sarcos’ was crowned Miss World 2011 few minutes ago at London’s Earls Court.Ivian Lunasol Sarcos Colmenares, a human resources graduate currently works for a broadcasting company. The 2nd place was taken by Philippines while the 3rd spot went to Puerto Rico.

The countries which made it to the top 7 are England, Korea, Venezuela, Philippines, Puerto Rico, South Africa and Scotland. 122 contestants from across the world took part in this year’s pageant… The pageant is 60 years old today!

Boys who made sex video may be expelled

Cape Town - Western Cape education authorities are considering expelling three Oudtshoorn High School pupils for allegedly making a sex video. "A disciplinary hearing was held and the school governing body has made the recommendation... that the three learners be expelled," provincial education spokesperson Bronagh Casey said on Monday. "The head of department’s office has received the documents from the school governing body and is now processing the recommendation."Casey said the head of department would make the final decision on whether the pupils should be expelled.

Corruption thieves –Nigeria

Nigeria, the white elephant of Africa, Nigeria is the 5th largest oil producer in the world, but these billions of dollars must first pass through the pockets of a handful of ex-general, politicians and the so call chiefs. The number one cause of corruption in this country is lawlessness.

There are laws but they are never enforced. This is a country where you can do whatever you like, particularly if you are wealthy, “If a poor man steals, they say he is a poor man; then they jail him or they can stone him to death in the street. But when a rich man steals, they look for grammar to color it.

However, some of our royal fathers are deep in corruption. They take money from government to do projects but will not do it. Another cause of corruption in the country is that Nigerians prefer the short cut to success. Nigeria educational institutions are riddled with corruption. The academicians too cut corners.

What a shame, impoverished status of Nigerians despite wealth of the country. The people in power allow their citizens to live in squalor while they enriched themselves and their families.

Highest-Paid man in entertainment

Tyler Perry

Tyler Perry earned $130 million between May 2010 and May 2011, which ranks him as the highest-earning man in entertainment for that time period. Perry makes big money from his TV shows as well as his movies. He'll take on the role of detective Alex Cross in a big screen adaptation of the James Patterson books.He often appears dressed in drag as Madea, the wide-hipped, argumentative, no-nonsense character who has starred in six of Perry’s movies. Madea has also shown up in one of Perry’s TV shows, House of Payne.

Secret Gay spread AIDS- Said, Game America Rapper!

Game America Rapper

American rapper, The Game, believes closeted gay (secretly gay) men are spreading AIDS by “fooling” women into having sex with them.  According to Game just gave an interview to VLADTV — saying he doesn’t have a problem with most gay people — just the ones who are “pretending” not to be gay and sleeping with women    Game says, “The #1 issue with that is you could be fooling somebody and you could give them AIDS and they can die … and that s**t spreads because that girl you might be fooling might leave you and go find another dude who is not gay and give him the disease.”

Facebook’s profited $1.6B in the First Half Of 2011

Facebook’s revenue soared to $1.6 billion in the first half of 2011, according to a report by Reuters, as the world’s largest social network continues to expand ahead of its widely anticipated IPO. The social networking giant posted net income of $500 million in the first half of 2011, according to “a source with knowledge of its financials.” Facebook has taken its user base to a whopping 750 million and has established itself as one of the biggest players in the display advertising world, TAKING one-third of all impressions served in the U.S. (more than Yahoo, Microsoft, Google, and AOL together).

For more Information: Forbes

Police minister robbed by officer on duty

                   

A South African police officer has been arrested for stealing from his boss, Police Minister Nathi Mthethwa, who is tasked with bringing down high crime levels, his spokesman said Tuesday.A laptop and cellphone were taken from the minister’s home in Cape Town. “There was no break-in,” said Mthethwa’s spokesman Zweli Mnisi. “The person who took them was a police officer on duty guarding the house.” The items were found and the policeman was arrested with two other people who bought the goods. The three were set to appear in court on Wednesday.

Egyptians gain a lot on “the idea of an internet revolution”

A revolution that is happened at Egypt as I type. My interests in it lie in the fact that it’s an online revolution. Social networking led to change in Tunisia, and caused demonstrations in Yemeni. It’s amazing to behold.

I connect in with a lot of political debates on and offline and everyone agrees that Nigeria is in dire need for a change. However those same people laughed at the idea of an internet revolution...yet here it is! Been up all day and night following all updates, because I am so happy about the possible outcomes of Egyptians.

Over Weigh Woman so far

World highest Paid Footballer Player



Samuel Etoo

Cameroun's Samuel Etoo is now the most paid human being to kick a football around, in a new deal, Samuel Etoo Will be earning 340,000 Euros (76 Million Naira) per week (10.8 Million Naira/day or 452K Naira Per Hour) which is about 20 million euros per year.  That places Etoo ahead of Christiano Ronaldo who earns 12M euros per year and Barcenlona's Lionel Messi who earns 10 million euros per year





Kanu Nwankwo’s Testimonial Match in Lagos

Nwankwo Kanu is Nigeria Super eagle team football player who is Africa’s most decorated football player, with a large collection of accolades from Premier Leagues across Europe and FIFA competition and is giving back to the African continent, through the Foundation.

Kanu Nwankwo will be marking the end of his international football career with a Testimonial Match scheduled for tomorrow Saturday 11th of June 2011, at Testimonial in Balogun Stadium in Lagos.

The following players are expected to honour him tomorrow as he says goodbye to international football are: Samuel Eto’o and Rigobert Song of Cameroon, Alex Song of Arsenal, Ghana’s Samuel Essien, Asamoah Gyan and Sulley Muntari. Emmanuel Adebayor from Togo, Senegal’s El Hadj Diouf, Cote d’ Ivoire’s Didier Drogba, Yaya and Kolo Toure. Kanu’s Portsmouth team mate Aaron Mokoena, together with South African compatriot Siphiwe Tshabalala, are also expected to play.

To illustrate how big his heart was, Kanu Nwankwo in July 31st 2000, set up a heart foundation for the treatment of less privileged children diagnosed with heart related disease. So far the foundation has successfully treated more than 3,000 children. He is presently the Nigeria Goodwill Ambassador to the United Nations Children's Fund.

Grace Mugabe’s -Secret affair ...

The wife of Robert Mugabe has been having a secret affair with one of her husband’s best friends; it was claimed two days ago.Grace Mugabe – who is 41 years younger than Zimbabwe’s 86-year-old president – has spent the past five years cuckolding him with Gideon Gono, head of the country’s central bank.   The couple would meet as often as three times a month either at her dairy farm or in expensive hotels in neighbouring South Africa.

International friendly match 2011 Nigeria condensed Argentina -Abuja National Stadium.

Nigeria trounced Argentina 4-1 here on Wednesday in a friendly for their first-ever win over the two-time world champions. The hosts dominated this game from start to finish and Argentina on  01 June 2011

Emenike, 24, made up for an earlier miss after coming on as a second-half substitute with a cool finish inside the box when he reached the end of a long ball and lobbed over the goalkeeper.

Obinna Nsofor was also on target from the penalty spot in the 27th minute after Everton striker Victor Anichebe was fouled inside the box.  Argentina clutches a comfort goal from the penalty spot courtesy of Mauro Boselli after Efe Ambrose was adjudged to have handled the ball deep into stoppage time.

Photosource: sportstvlink.com

Sex or NO! mark

Four Walter Sisulu University lecturers have been suspended in a sex-for-marks scandal that has rocked the institution. The scandal erupted when a BTech student in the South African University complained that she might not graduate in May. "I went to my supervisor to find out why he is not giving me marks for my project, (and) he said we will have to have sex first," the 23-year-old student said.

During exams in November last year. On her return to campus last month, she again approached him, but she claimed the lecturer again demanded that they have sex.

Attempts to resolve the matter through the student representative council three weeks ago failed, and she has since reported the matter to the office of the public protector.

The student alleges that the lecturer repeated his shocking demands in front of SRC members and an academic affairs representative. She said she was humiliated when, in the presence of fellow students, the lecturer told her again: "I want to have sex with you. It's that or no marks." She said: "I realised that this is normal practice for him to be so bold. For him to say that in the presence of the student leadership showed that he is used to victimising students and thinks it's the norm to exchange sex for marks."

SRC president Ayanda Gantsho confirmed that he was at the meeting. He told the South African Sunday Times he was shocked when the lecturer went even further and agreed to put his demands in writing. He allegedly wrote a letter which reads: "Akapasi kuba ndifuna ukulala naye," meaning "She won't pass because I want to have sex with her."  In another case, a student passed only after the lecturer was suspended.
The university's council chair man, Dr Somadoda Fikeni, admitted that there were gaps in policies which created problems when dealing with some disciplinary cases. Three institutions - the University of Transkei (Unitra), Border Technikon and Eastern Cape Technikon - merged to form the university, but their codes of conduct have yet to be merged into one.
"We have instructed the vice chancellor to deal with the policy issue as soon as possible," said Fikeni.
Among the suspended staff is a senior public management lecturer on the university's Zamukulungisa campus in Mthatha and three law faculty lecturers on the former Unitra campus.
Vice-chancellor Professor Marcus Balintulo confirmed the suspensions this week, adding that charges against another staff member had been dropped owing to a lack of evidence. He said the suspensions were handed down between November last year and this week.
Balintulo said: "There is a standoff at the university, with students asserting their rights to be protected from victimisation, while staff feel that they are being portrayed as predators.
"There's a lot of anger around this, but we have to act and follow due process."
Students boycotted classes on Tuesday after they spotted a suspended lecturer on campus.
Balintulo then called a meeting with student representatives and the unions on Wednesday.
The next day, staff members pledged support for their colleague, which led to students boycotting classes.


Source:   elombah.com   

World literary celebrity

Chinua Achebe, one of the world's most influential authors, has been chosen to receive the 2010 Dorothy and Lillian Gish Prize. With approximately $300,000 from silent film stars Dorothy and Lillian Gish, the Gish Prize is one of the largest and most prestigious awards in the arts.

Gish Prize recipients are nominated by the worldwide arts community and selected for their unprecedented impact in their chosen fields.



Nigerian author Chinua Achebe

Achebe will receive the prize and a silver medallion on October 27, 2010, at the Hudson Theatre, Millennium Broadway, New York City. Leaders of the arts including curator Lowery Sims, former NEA chair Jane Alexander, PEN president Kwame Anthony Appiah, author Ekwueme Michael Thelwell, poet Sonia Sanchez, and musician Baba Ola Jagun will be among the presenters and guests celebrating Achebe's work and his impact on the international diasporas of African fiction and voices.

"When I was a boy, growing up in Nigeria, becoming a novelist was a far-away dream," says Achebe. "Now it is a reality for many African writers, not just myself. The Gish Prize recognizes the long journey my fellow colleagues and I have taken, and I am proud and grateful for that."

Now in its 17th year, the annual Gish Prize continues to reflect the spirit of the pioneering Gish sisters, paying tribute to artistic trailblazers who have redefined their craft. Gish Prize recipients have shaped the cultural landscape in drama, music, dance, art, architecture, lighting design, film, and literature.Achebe joins an impressive list of past Gish Prize winners including Robert Redford, Ornette Coleman, Merce Cunningham and Frank Gehry.

Source: Saharareporters

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Try a cliché

In business communication we came across so many clichés, the clichés are basically on unoriginal ideas or it can be good ideas that have been floating around for a while.In business communication is all about duplicate the same weary business expression or using old ideas that have been compressed into the ground in order to drum up business which is followed :

• Expression that have become overused
• Make reading monotonous and can make the writer or speaker seem like a copier.
• A damaged expression can convey such messages as "you are not special"; I won’t bother to think; the phrases I used in talking with others are surely good enough for you.
• Using overly strong adjectives and adverbs may damage people’s credibility.

In business environment, No one can be unique on a daily basis but keeping away from office clichés can at least give managers a fighting chance of staying relevant in the workplace and keeping the respect of employees.

 

The day of my graduation!!!

The thousands of students rocked the Multi-purpose hall when the guest of honors entered. Everyone was so excited about who the guest was. When they had reached his seat, we rose and sang the South Africa National anthem. Although the first speech was quite dry, the second was pretty interesting. Another round of applause thundered in the hall after the speeches while students from formative and design faculty lined up along the sit numbers. Many waited excitedly for their turn to go onto the stage to receive their certificate from their form Vice Chancellor. When it was my turn, I was so excited that I can’t wait to see my brother and friends who are watching me on the stage.

Kingsley at Multi-purpose hall

Kingsley, Pumeza ,Adile and Bethadwa

 

Odinaka kingsley okoli



My big Brother Ossy and his wife, Kingsley, Chike and Bethadwa



kingsley and Bathadwa at E-learning

My families are extremely proud of me. I can't imagine the sense of relief they are experiencing. I know my late father will be enjoying anywhere he is, and talk of my mother who is dancing the first time she heard that I received a letter for graduation. I sincerely believe that after graduation my dreams will come true and I will succeed in anything that is my desires; and is bold and full of dreams since that keep me going! I am waiting to make a significant contribution to the development of my country Nigeria. After live here!

Feeling follow behaviors

positive mood at work place  

Feelings …play a vital role in influential human behavior. Our behavior in the direction of other persons is determined by our feelings toward them.
For example when you Love someone is a feeling that brings both joy and pain to our heart. Joy from being with someone you love, being filled with an emotion so deep and tender that no other feeling can compare. Pain from knowing that I'm so in love, that I'm more vulnerable than I have ever.
Behavior is something accompany with feeling being able to recognize some one behaviors is very important not only for their health and general well being. But in the another side of humankind,
According to Simmons .B. who said “Feeling Good by Doing Good” a good feeling follow Behavior is a term used to describe discretionary behavior at work where an employee goes above and beyond what’s written in their job description to either help other coworkers or to help the organization to achieve their goals. By understanding this behaviors will help you to recognize if someone is happy, angry, dozy, asleep, in pain, or frightened.

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Life has NO! prefect definition

What is life? At the same time as the respond to this question may appear simple, scientists have really spent substantial time thinking about this problem. In fact, many scientists would suggest that we still do not have a clear definitive answer to this question. But most people believe that life is defined as having the ability to reproduce, even if it is by cell division.

According to biblical definition of life, In the first book of the Bible, we find these words, “And God said, Let us make man in our image, after our likeness: and let them have dominion over the fish of the sea, and over the fowl of the air, and over the cattle, and over all the earth, and over every creeping thing that creepeth upon the earth. So God created man in his own image, in the image of God created he him; male and female created he them” (Gen. 1:26, 27). God gave life to the first humans.

In Islamic point of view about life .Allah states in the Quran that He created man to be His” Khalefah”, His trustee on earth (Quran 2:30). Mankind’s basic trust, our responsibility, is to believe in and worship Allah and Quran contains hundreds of verses that speak of the universe, its components and phenomena such as the Earth, the sun, the moon, the stars, mountains, wind, running water, plants, embryological animals, and the successive stages of development of the human being.

Ordinary people feel that it is not scheme, but procedure that is alive. Others have suggested that life, rather than being, some separate belongings of parts of the universe, is itself universal - Universal Life not in the sense of assurance. Life surround with visible and invisible …of something which human being can not see that why I believe that life has NO prefect definition.

Reference: http://www.islamic-life.com/
http://www.indexmundi.com/facts/saudi-arabia/life-expectancy-at-birth
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It is better to practice a little than talk a lot

Everyone knows that is batter to practice a little before you talk …perfect. When you tell somebody that practice makes perfect it is telling them to practice. Not To give up continue trying their hardest. You may not be perfect but you will be the best you can be. It does not matter if it’s a mathematicians, statistic learner or acting. The more you attempt something the less afraid you are of it and the better you will be, instead of talking a lot.

Talking a lot can cast you because when everyone knows someone like this. Perhaps your good person, but they will hate to see you around because when you coming they believe that you will tell them everything that they don’t want to know about. Someone who talks a lot is extremely difficult to break away from them in conversation with people like this.

Talking a lot will allowed people to read your mind easily and understand your thinking, your secret and your plans but when you practice it allow you gain confident for everything you do as a human being.

It is wiser to practice a little than to talk a lot.

Wedding cake in middle of the road.

Wedding cake in middle of the road is clarification of “Love” which begins with a smile, grows with a kiss, and ends with a teardrop” I once heard true story about Chris and Lita on wedding day in Lagos. When Chris Omen gets engage with Lita Smith after the three month of engagement.

Omen decided to do church wedding with Lita which he has arrange everything the date, invitation card etc.

Since Chris and Lita met each other as fiancées they have not meet them selves as husband and wife because her fiancés claims to be the church women’s fellowships leader.

She requested Chris to follow the church procedure role and regulation in Nigeria Catholic required medical checkup before wedding proceed, both of them went for medical checkup and doctor confirmed the result a day before the wedding day. when he came to collect the result.

Doctor said to Omen congratulation… Omen asks for what? Doctor said your fiancé is 2 month pregnant for you. Omen goes crazy!!!! Because he knows that he hasn’t have any sexual intercourse with Lita… He couldn’t hold the annoyance...

He requested for cancellation of Wedding and the even monogrammed gifts are requested to take back their gifts. All foods, drinks, meats and wedding cake end up in the middle of the road.

Afrikan Comedy....Basket Mouth

Two things involve in life  ...for both Men and Women...

Inspiration quotation about life

Quotes about life is liable to be quite admired on suggestive of self-exploration, then I think it is a great symbol. Here is another set of quotes about life to get your thinking ahead.

The sound of one hand clapping…

The sound of one hand clapping...is similar to feeling of hopeless in one sided love; when you love someone that can't or won't love you back...it is resulted to one hand clapping. However, Have you ever experience a bad marriage and a crazy divorce, and don't ever want to be hurt again...Have you experience so many bad relationships and been rejected so many times in the past that don't want to take that chance again.

It is clearly the sound of one hand clapping when the one-sided love commonly occurs, when a relationship or marriage breaks, and one person moves on, while their spouse constantly thinks of them and attempts to win them back. The pain of this situation will be horrible that can useless someone are in a victim of it.

I know it is very difficult situation to be in. Because it will cause you a lot of frustration when it feels like you're the only one trying to make it work. Absolutely because person, who doesn’t care for your emotions, how can waste your emotions for him/her one side love is just like day dreaming. It is a practical answer of one hand clapping without any realistic sounds.

My ...life My way...

“I am enough of an artist to draw freely upon my imagination.” I mostly correct wrong things and have strong-willed and decisive unemotional. I like to be in charge, exceptionally capable in organizing and running activities. I believe on my goals and expectations to line with my abilities. I have a realistic approach to making my dreams come true.
Failure and setbacks only make them more determined to achieve something toward my future. I am not easily too discouraged with my independent and self sufficient. My system of learning is hearing and listening, this help me a lot by understand and remember thing I have heard, I store information by the way it sound and I prefer listening over reading and writing.
I like learning by reading out loud because I have to hear it or speak it in order to know it, I probably hum or talk to myself or other if I become bored, sometime peoples think I am not paying attention even though I may be hearing and understand everything being said. I have an easier time understanding spoken direction or instruction than one that are written down. Likely to be athletic, I am not interested in theory or abstraction unless I see the practical application. I have clear visions of the way things should be responsible.

Reciprocal… respect!

Reciprocal respect is the basis of genuine unity. We should endeavor for a spirit of harmony, not for political or economic reasons, but is quite simply because we understand the value of other traditions. We always make an effort to promote religious consensus.

Referring to Griswold .W. who said; respect cannot be hunted. It cannot be purchased. It is never for sale. It cannot be fabricated out of public relations. It comes to us when we are alone, in quiet moments, in quiet places, when suddenly realizes that, knowing the good, we have done it; knowing the beautiful, we have served it; knowing the truth we have spoken it.

When we give respect, we also get respect in return; Respect is another way of showing love. Respect conveys the feeling that another person is a true equal. If you talk to your children as if they were adults you will strengthen the bonds and become close friends is more applicable to interpersonal relationship.

Having respect for others creates respect for you. For example, your reputation is enhanced when others feel respected and treated well in your presence. Being someone that people enjoy interacting with can easily earn you recommendations, letters of support, and a kind word about you to others.

Respect is give-and-take because it increasing your friendships and acquaintances means increasing the number of people in support of you.

Respect help you getting to know more quality people through having respect for others lays the foundation for your better life.



Humorous story of potential and reality

A childrens comes home from school with a writing assignment. They asks there father for help. "Dad, can you tell me the difference between potential and reality. " His father looks up, considerately, and then says, "Let's make an expression out of this. Go ask your mother if she would sleep with Rob Smith for a million rands. Then go ask your sister if she would sleep with Steve Gusy for a million rands. Then come back and tell me what you've acknowledge."
The children are confused, but they decide to see if he can figure out what his father means. Then they goes to his sister’s room and asks her, "Sis, if someone gave you a million rands, would you sleep with Steve Gusy? His sister looks up and says, "Absolutely!” The children go back to his father and say, "Dad, I think I've figured it out. Potentially, we are sitting on two million bucks, but in reality, we're living with a couple of Prostitution.”

It is a poor idea to lie to yourself.

We all lie to our selves, but why do we lie? Sure, lying to our salve is both useful and sometimes we acquire it like fun, yet there are fundamental reasons why we lie; Altruistic Reasons, Fear of rejection, Fear of punishment, Fear of harm and Fear of conflict. We lie for our salve because it mostly works. According to “Tad Williams” said, we tell lies when we are afraid... afraid of what we don't know, afraid of what others will think, afraid of what will be found out about us. But every time we tell a lie, the thing that we fear grows stronger.
The consequences of lying to our salves can be reflective negative impact on our lives both socially and in extreme cases legally. Lying comes in many forms and variations depending on the situation it is to be used in; verbal, writing, physical issues, behavior and thoughts, the fundamental cause are the truly interesting issue.
When people lie to themselves can it be innocent, or is it an indicator of a deeper failure of morals? Because when peoples find out that you are a liar obviously the person has harmed He/her reputation to the public.
It is a poor idea to lie to yourself… because Lying causes anxiety, depression and physical illness. After you lie to someone, you may not like being around that person. Lies ruin friendships, work relationships and marriages. If someone catches you lying, he or she won't easily believe you again. Your status in that person's eyes will drops to zero.

About me and what I like.

I have strong sense of my own influence while at the time exhibiting an adventure some spirit and leadership qualities, as for me. I am always deeply interested in philosophy or religion for powerful ideas often attract powerful people and also like established of a social nature is to be defended and served to the fullest.

I came from quite humble backgrounds but I never forget my roots and also value my authority and sharply reasoning mind above all else. I have a kind of wiliness or cunning that is leading me out of the most difficult situation in the respect of my morals.
I like learning to be less possessive by giving up material possessions from time to time will be an important lesson for me to learn. Beware that I am selfish, especially in the name of family, where it passes as filial or parent responsibility.
I enjoy taking myself serious perhaps too much so, I like to laugh at myself from time to time- discover lighter side of life, I am always try to be less judgmental. My weakness I am the kind of human being that like dominant and is impatient on everything that I do. I have quick –tempered and I can’t relax is too impetuous for me. I enjoy arguments and I won’t give up when loosing, I will come across too strong and dislike tears and emotions.
An also always set for some new and enriching experiences in life and exhibits his fearless and brave face towards the realities of life. I am kinds of guy who is energetic and has great entrepreneurial skills. Also very ambitious, hardworking, exciting and plans carefully for the future. I would like to have a partner who would be totally organized. Particular when it comes to planning her future. The best way to get with her is to go according to the plans she has attached out for life.
Extravagance has always been my weakness. I would never resign to the dictate of others, but may be hostile and illogical when dealing with those who fall under my supervision. And be totally enthusiastic about my work and show a great determination to succeed. My ability is progressive and quick to demonstrate my ability to do good work, tends to gain rapid promotion. These are my strengths; I am born leader because I have the charisma and also have dynamic and active compulsive need for change.
I am the kind of person that must correct wrong things and have strong-willed and decisive unemotional, I am not easily too discouraged also independent and self sufficient. My system of learning is hearing and listening, this help me a lot by understand and remember thing I have heard, I store information by the way it sound and I prefer listening over reading and writing.
I like learning by reading out loud because I have to hear it or speak it in order to know it, I probably hum or talk to myself or other if I become bored, sometime peoples think I am not paying attention even though I may be hearing and understand everything being said. I have an easier time understanding spoken direction or instruction than one that are written down. This is all about me and what I like.

Not all who wander are lost

The guy, on the verge of panic, finally regains his composure. "So what's the good news?

Once upon a time, when I was a young boy in high school, I was very sick having stomach pains all over digestive system was very painful, I was unable to eat anything accept water, tea and juice nothing else.
On the following day I went to hospital to find out what was the problem, I met the doctor after the consultation tests the doctor told me that I have an Appendix and Hernia at the same time, he told me that I need to be operated to remove them form my stomach.
Since I was born, I haven’t experience any surgery in my life, I was so anxious that I could not control myself I ask the doctor if there’s any possible way that he can give medications instead of removing appendix and Hernia he said that is impossible the only solution is to do the surgery.
All I could think about was that I am going to die after the surgery.
After the consultation with the doctor I went home to tell my parents what happened, they said to me what are you still waiting for; I told them that the doctor wants do to an operation I refused because I thought I will die because I heard that Appendix and Hernia killed somebody on the spot.
Two days later at night at 1:30 AM the stomach pain started again, the pains were worst and uncontrollable, I started shouting the next place I saw myself the next morning in hospital with plasters on my stomach. So guess what? The surgery was successful I realize that not all who wonder are lost!

Fish falling from the sky

Fish falling form the sky is reference to biblical (Exodus 16) this is usually happened in olden days where Israelites were given the riches of material provision in the form of manna. “When Manna falls from heaven and had to be collected early in the day” when people of world are still enjoying the world and walk with the fear of God.

Nowadays, people are living in selfishness, greed, and a number of other sins, poverty, different kinds of diseases, and problems all over the worlds, there is no fear of God because God has given us freewill.

Sadly a lot of times we use that freewill to hurt other people.

We live in a world that basically chooses to ignore God, refuse to ask for His help, and yet are very quick to blame him when things go wrong.

Fish can still fall from sky only when you giving your life over to God. will not stop the suffering, but at least He will carry the burdens for you, and give you peace that passes all understanding.

How do you step from the top of a 100-fool pole?

It is all about the strength of mind climbing up that pole and having to take a risk in order to accomplish what you want in life. Step from the top a 100-fool pole is all about “take the risk and joins the billionaires” In life we place of all our dreams add goal, because we afraid of failure, and give up trying. 

                 

When we look at successful people, their success has nothing to do with luck at all. Indeed behind their success is hard work, taking risk, making mistakes and gain benefit out of all. Life is all about taking risks and stepping from the top of a 100-fool pole is all about risk taking to enable you as person, to achieve your mission  of survives.